Women don’t want to hear what you think. Women want to hear what they think - in a deeper voice.
Bill Cosby(Source: thedaytimelantern)
If I compliment you, I’m just trying to butter you up to eventually get in your pants, and I’m a “typical man”.
If I don’t compliment you I’m inconsiderate, unappreciative, and I’m a “typical man”.
If I insult you I’m a misogynistic male disrespecting you because you’re a woman, and I’m a “typical man”.
So basically it’s a lose-lose situation from one extreme to the other.
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If I have to explain to another dag’on person that Zombies are not coming. (Not you Rocky) I’ve gone through the scientific and logical explanation like 10 times today to a friend, that friend’s friend, that friend’s friend’s friend, and etc. Who keep text messaging me about the “immanent” zombie invasion. Guys this isn’t a Capcom video game(Can’t wait for RE:6 though). Although there are a stream of sicknesses and conditions that could cause nearly identical zombie like behavior, the strain would kill you off/immobilize you so quick you might get through like… a person and a quarter.. Zombies aren’t coming, in short at the level of body activity that was described in the reports you’d decompose rather quickly (it’s hot as a mofo this summer), and that’s if whatever disease/virus/whatevertheeffyouwanttocallit doesn’t kill you off first. If all else fails the military is going to terminate all who’re even almost suspected to have said virus with extreme prejudice.. We’re safe guys. Relax. Stop being so ridiculous.
(Except for Rocky, cause she’s awesome) B)
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Imagination is more important than knowledge. For while knowledge defines all we currently know and understand, imagination points to all we might yet discover and create.
Albert Einstein (via cultureofresistance)(Source: adrenachromedreams)
I have one, single, very simple rule when I’m in a relationship.Don’t do anything that you wouldn’t want me to do. I can’t stand hypocrisy.
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Advice for a friend. (help?)Okay so here’s the deal, a friend of mind is dating this girl right? She doesn’t live in his neighborhood but they see each other when they can. She’s a great gal, and a good girlfriend from what I can see so far; however there are some behaviors that I feel she needs to clean up.
She’s constantly making said friend feel he’s in a state of comparison, due to her constant conversation about this guy, that guy, what others did, what he doesn’t do. etc. Even as far as one time suggesting to reenact a “cute” thing that previous ex’s did. In addition she feeds off of the attention she gets from other men, and indulges them to a certain extent. Now, call me old fashioned, but I feel like if you’re in a relationship the only person you really need to be concerned with is your significant other. Yet she’s always telling him how much she loves him, and he’s beginning to find it hard to buy due to what she says not matching up to what she does. She of course, doesn’t pay much mind to it; but I put it to them like this: Lets say she loves pizza, and so she goes out to a place to eat, orders some pizza, yet instead of enjoying her favorite meal, all she can do the entire time is look around the room and stare at everyone else’s food. Catch my drift?
From what I’ve heard, she’s a bit too cheeky-cheeky with the male friends she has in her life. He, nor I have any problem with a significant other having males of the opposite sex, as long as they understand their place, as a friend. Which entails totally platonic interaction. She however cannot grasp this fact, as it has become the norm for her friends to interact with her in inappropriate and overly affectionate ways. He’s stated that the problem isn’t that he doesn’t trust her or even what she does, it’s more so what she accepts; and that she’s accepted it to the point where she will literally get mad and fight with him when he tries to talk to her about it and put it to a stop. (Personally, I might have swung on N’s by now). The behavior between her and her male friends is just off setting mainly because most if not all of these guys aren’t life long best friends she grew up with, and if these are dude bridging between associate level, what are the higher ups getting away with? To me it just seems like she has very little respect for boundaries both voiced and entitled.
When people are around she switches back into a different mode, almost like he’s not her boyfriend. She’s pretty secretive about the relationship as well, and doesn’t like to reply to affectionate statements when people are around. Not because it makes her uncomfortable, but because she doesn’t want people to hear her and know she’s in a relationship apparently. He doesn’t like the idea that he’s on the hush-hush level. He doesn’t want her to broadcast, but he figures “why not be proud of the relationship you’re in?” It’s not a title or concept or crutch to be used only in certain instances.
(side note)
Her partying tendencies (Alcohol consumption around males with ill intentions to say the least, and other… party enhancing medication) also worry him but I told him that “she’s young and she’s going to go out and party, you just have to set boundaries for how she’s to act while she’s out. Which you shouldn’t have to do because she’s an adult and as such should understand how she should conduct herself, but seeing on how she’s acting with these other accounts maybe you should just be clear..”
He’s just not sure if he’s doing something wrong to make her not respect him, or if she’s simply not ready for a relationship and he should cut the strings. In short her actions, don’t connect with her words, she’s inconsistent lately and to be frank (aside from her many good points he’s listed) inconsiderate. To me it seems like she’s not ready to give up a single life style, that being said he’s been through a good deal with and for this girl. He likes her and wants it to work, but she’s more or less dangling him by a thread because she’ll tell him how much she cares for him, and then talk and treat him like waste the next moment. So what are his options?
-I ask you people of tumblr because, I mean… all these relationship posts and stuff, you guys are clearly relationship experts right?
Thanks in Advance.
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